Can you accept that every action ever taken by a person is in agreement with God as the actor sees and experiences it?  In that every action taken is in alignment with an aspect of God from the point of view of the one acting?  This is a very hard teaching to accept.  For many it will be absolutely impossible and for good reason.  It does not take much imagination to make this teaching appear horrific.  To attempt to apply this teaching to the extreme cases of cruelty from one to another would appear an insult to the suffering endured by the victim;  so I will not attempt it at this time.  Still I think this is a true teaching;  the understanding of which can help us see what we, and others, truly are.

We don’t error in our own actions.  We error in our knowledge of those outside us.